He told me that his girlfriend broke up with him but he's not gonna cry since he's a guy.
It's the first time this guy had his heart broken. Poor kid. He told me it hurts but he didn't want to cry because he's a guy. Yes, he emphasized that. He's a guy so he won't cry.
You know, I think it's stupid. The kind of mindset our society has impressed on us. "Guys are not supposed to cry." WHAT?! Just because he's a guy doesn't mean he has no heart or feelings anymore, right? I mean why don't they understand and accept the fact that IT'S OKAY TO CRY!
When you're hurt, cry. It's not an indication of weakness.
Since the time of our birth, crying has been an indication that we're alive.
Nothing is wrong with crying especially when you're hurt. Even Jesus wept.
It doesn't matter who and what you are, if you're hurt; cry.
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